Explosions

No, im not talking about the awesome song by Ellie Goulding or the Natural Disaster. I’m talking about yelling, screaming,  fighting,  cussing, and throwing things. When something happens to a person that annoys them  numerous amounts of times and they let it slide everytime until they finally explode and when they do the aftermath is pretty bad. So lets break his thing down so we can fully understand it, first what causes an explosion? A person is enduring pain and suffering without saying  anything. Not necessarily physical pain but more so emotional. For example Sally is a nice girl and she doesnt like confrontation so when Betty spreads rumors about her she ignores it and lets it slide. As weeks go by Sally sees Betty with her friends and Betty and her friends stair at Sally then they turn away and start laughing and whispering. Sally chooses not to say anything again because Betty is immature and she doesnt wanna stoop to her level.  Well today is Tuesday and Sally is having a really rough day and her comes Betty conveniently and she  tries to squeeze through Sally so she can through the hallway, but this time Sally doesnt let it slide. She says “Excuse You!” Now they are arguing back and forth until Sally walks off because she doesn’t wanna accidentally punch the girl in the face. Lolz But my point is Sally was letting pressure build up when she keep letting it slide. She truly wasnt over what Betty was doing, she simply wasnt giving her a reaction. Which is a good thing because everything someone does doesnt always deserve a reaction. But somethings do deserve a reaction and eeyone feels differently about that. Some ppl may have said something the first time Betty was messing with them or others the second time or never at all. The thing is, is that when it comes to standing up for yourself, it has to be done but in the right way. The bet thing to do is say something at the beginning before it gets out of hand and dont stoop to their level. Im not talking physical. But my whole point is, is that letting it slide only builds pressure and then boom, explosion. And when you explode its not gonna good, your gonna us foul words and hurt the other persons feelings and you may even say the 100% truth but the aftermath isnt gonna be good, you wont be able to take back what you said and the situation probably gonna be worse than before, thats why most ppl walk out and explode some where else or even worse take it out on some else or even worst hurt themaelves because they feel like they cant take it and end their life or harm there body in some type of way. Which is never the answer. Self harm doesnt make anyhing better either. But my point again is that standing up for yourself ia a good thing, not bad

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